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October, 2009

  1. I’m a Travelin Band and You’re My Groupies

    October 5, 2009 by Blondette

    I was reading archived posts the other day and saw a “You Might Be Katie Leas if” where I mentioned something about not liking to fly and not liking to travel. Amazing how time goes.

    This summer I traveled to Orlando, New York City, and Las Vegas for work. I find I’ve traveled enough in the last 3 years that I get huffy with slow people in the security line, I no longer feel I’m jinxing myself if I don’t sit attentively watching the security review on the plane, I don’t freak out when I see people using their cell phones during the flight,  I don’t need Xanax to fly, and I kinda like airport shops (okay TRUTH, I’ve always liked the airport shops and I like night flights)

    Places I’ve been thanks to work:

    • Fort Lauderdale, FL
    • New Orleans, LA
    • Seattle, WA
    • Indianapolis, IN
    • Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN
    • Las Vegas, NV
    • Orlando, FL
    • New York City, NY

    Here’s a few photo highlights from my travels.

    Orlando

    My visit in June was a first for me. I’d never been to the city that housed Disney World. Oh man, there was a Rugrats hotel. We stayed at a nice hotel and had to drive to the conference hotel- it was a LONG few days and it ate up a weekend plus a couple work days, but it was definitely worth it. I actually really working the booth at shows. I ended up in one of the industry publications Vanna-ing our wares. (We were promoting our site SchoolBlender with margaritas…I posed and then provided a quote for the caption and we won first place)

    My hotel in Orlando had lots of foliage. I didn't realize this was a normal thing but apparently it is.

    My hotel in Orlando had lots of foliage. I didn't realize this was a normal thing but apparently it is.

    We took clients to dinner the night after I'd worked the booth all day. I helped tear down and ended up going back to my hotel to change before dinner. It was a Japanese Steakhouse, aka HEAVEN.

    We took clients to dinner the night after I'd worked the booth all day. I helped tear down and ended up going back to my hotel to change before dinner. It was a Japanese Steakhouse, aka HEAVEN.

    Out of sequence, but this was Gayla's drink at the sushi bar in our hotel. We stopped there for lunch after we put up the booth. I had a headache at this point but managed to get over it. We had enough time to bathe and change before heading back over to start meetings and conference time. Pretty drink. Sake involved. I complimented the waitress on her shirt and then realized it was a uniform shirt. Felt stupid. But had food. and flowery drink

    Out of sequence, but this was Gayla's drink at the sushi bar in our hotel. We stopped there for lunch after we put up the booth. I had a headache at this point but managed to get over it. We had enough time to bathe and change before heading back over to start meetings and conference time. Pretty drink. Sake involved. I complimented the waitress on her shirt and then realized it was a uniform shirt. Felt stupid. But had food. and flowery drink

    This is what we saw while waiting for our breakfast meetings. I'm really not a huge fan of palm trees.

    This is what we saw while waiting for our breakfast meetings. I'm really not a huge fan of palm trees.

    Our give away at the exhibit hall- one was spiked and one wasn't. Our cups were hypercolor. Trust me, the give away was relevant. It was also a good way to get people to stop and talk. I'm a good little booth girl. It was pretty much non-stop talking for me.

    Our give away at the exhibit hall- one was spiked and one wasn't. Our cups were hypercolor. Trust me, the give away was relevant. It was also a good way to get people to stop and talk. I'm a good little booth girl. It was pretty much non-stop talking for me.

    New York City

    OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG *pinch* Dude, I’m in Harlem?! OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG Is that Central Park? OMG OMG OMG Am I getting ripped off? All the literature says this cab ride shouldn’t cost more than $40. I hope I don’t get ripped off. OMG OMG OMG I’M IN NEW YORK CITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

    I’m smooth, huh? That’s kind of how my brain was working when I landed at LaGuardia. NYC is an epic city. You have Rome, Athens, Pompeii, Constantinople, and…New York City.  As you may have guessed from my sauve-ty, it was my first visit to New York City.

    This was the view my hotel- there was always some sort of traffic. I stayed at the Marriott Marquis in Time Square. I'm underprivelged.

    This was the view my hotel- there was always some sort of traffic. I stayed at the Marriott Marquis in Time Square. I'm underprivelged.

    Pigeons > Seagulls. My first up close and personal with real NYC Pigeons. I was sitting outside at Starbucks being stood up for a meeting. But there was a latte and pigeons!

    Pigeons > Seagulls. My first up close and personal with real NYC Pigeons. I was sitting outside at Starbucks being stood up for a meeting. But there was a latte and pigeons!

    We stumbled past NBC studios and such on our way back to the hotel after visiting St. Patrick's Cathedral. So much walking. And Rockafeller Center was very small. I'm still not conviced that I saw the real Rockafeller Center. Treachery.

    We stumbled past NBC studios and such on our way back to the hotel after visiting St. Patrick's Cathedral. So much walking. And Rockafeller Center was very small. I'm still not conviced that I saw the real Rockafeller Center. Treachery.

    We cabbed it over to the area that allowed us to walk up to Ground Zero. It wasn't what I expected but the construction is deep. You can't see much other than lots of construction. Not sure how they are going to get it done by 2011.

    We cabbed it over to the area that allowed us to walk up to Ground Zero. It wasn't what I expected but the construction is deep. You can't see much other than lots of construction. Not sure how they are going to get it done by 2011.

    A memorial near Ground Zero for firefighters. I teared up. Seeing names always does that. Names make them people. Which makes me sad.

    A memorial near Ground Zero for firefighters. I teared up. Seeing names always does that. Names make them people. Which makes me sad.

    Nope, that's not a dirty spot, that's Lady Liberty. Hey! Our cabbie was very tourguidey and drove us over to Battery Park and told us all kinds of things that I've since forgotten. I do remember that he works in IT too and he's bringing his family over from India finally.

    Nope, that's not a dirty spot, that's Lady Liberty. Hey! Our cabbie was very tourguidey and drove us over to Battery Park and told us all kinds of things that I've since forgotten. I do remember that he works in IT too and he's bringing his family over from India finally.

    Columns at St. Patrick's

    Columns at St. Patrick's

    Stained glass window at St. Patrick's. I couldn't come close with my camera phone to capturing the color.

    Stained glass window at St. Patrick's. I couldn't come close with my camera phone to capturing the color.

    Take my breath away. Nope, not a cheesey love scene. Amazing wowness inside St. Patrick's Cathedral.

    Take my breath away. Nope, not a cheesey love scene. Amazing wowness inside St. Patrick's Cathedral.

    A shot to the back of the church toward the organ. This was my favorite view. I was in awe. It was breathtaking. I may have thanked God a little that day.

    A shot to the back of the church toward the organ. This was my favorite view. I was in awe. It was breathtaking. I may have thanked God a little that day.

    Las Vegas

    YAWN. I’ve done this before that whole one other time last year. I’m a pro. Well, okay, not a pro but I learned a few things about Vegas that helped me have a more enjoyable experience. No matter how short the distance looks, you should never try to walk from Planet Hollywood to Mandalay Bay. For the love of God, wear decent shoes. (I rocked my cowboy boots with a black dress.) Your room will never be 100% dark.

    I had an interesting room at Bally's in Vegas. I'd never use the giant jetted tub because doubt they clean it well enough to convince me they've washed away all of the sin. The bathroom was setup funny and there were A LOT of mirrors. The room was also never fully dark and I had an obscured view of the front of the Bellagio and got to see the fountains from my room. All in all, not bad for a gal. This is the only picture I have for you. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas! (lame. actually there really wasn't anything to capture. I tweeted and blogged the actual event.)

    I had an interesting room at Bally's in Vegas. I'd never use the giant jetted tub because doubt they clean it well enough to convince me they've washed away all of the sin. The bathroom was setup funny and there were A LOT of mirrors. The room was also never fully dark and I had an obscured view of the front of the Bellagio and got to see the fountains from my room. All in all, not bad for a gal. This is the only picture I have for you. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas! (lame. actually there really wasn't anything to capture. I tweeted and blogged the actual event.)

    Those are just a few snippets from my travel. I feel lucky. I no longer hate to travel. I never did really hate it- I was just afraid because it was a rarity. When I was 8, they made us do tumbling in gym class and I was terrified of doing somersaults and forward rolls. (never got over skinning the cat). Once I tried it, I was a tumbling fool. I setup a mattress thing in our living room at home and would just fill my days with forward rolls. Quit while I’m ahead with the anecdote, yeah?


  2. The Bride Wore Pink

    October 4, 2009 by Blondette

    …and the bridesmaids are wearing black sometime in December.

    That’s right: TAMMI is engaged to be married! Congratulations Tammi and Steve

    Tammi and Steve being happy and in love.

    Tammi and Steve being happy and in love.

    What kind of knot should they tie?

    Here are the knot options for tying.

    Here are the knot options for tying.

    I vote for a Celtic knot.

    Celtic knots are so pretty. I vote for these.

    Celtic knots are so pretty. I vote for these.


  3. When I Was a Dave Matthews Band Fangirl

    October 3, 2009 by Blondette

    I was just watching DMB (Dave Matthews Band) on Austin City Limits and it’s the first time since the death of LeRoi Moore than I’ve watched the band. I was DEVOTED to this band through college. I drove to Chicago, Nashville, St. Louis to see them. (doesn’t sound so impressive when I see it typed out- but keep in mind I drove those distances alone in my little Saturn…yeah, still not that impressive.) I thought about trips to further destinations but time and money were factors.

    I connected with the music. The lyrics, the rhythm, the melody the emotion.

    My first real exposure was when my flute teacher gave me a cassette tape of Crash so I could listen to the sax. (“LeRoi Moore on the saxophone!”) It was cool, but I wasn’t hooked at that point. Sometime in college I started to listen to them more and then I had a neighbor who was a bit of a fanboy and my crush on him didn’t hurt my growing like for the band. He showed me new ways to get the music, a community of people who followed the band, and then it was pretty much settled: I was a Dave Matthews Band fangirl.

    I waded into the forums and eventually became a well-known top poster. I met people from the boards at the shows. I got very close with several people throughout the time. In fact today, I am still in contact with some of the people I met through the boards. I know of several marriages and relationships that were formed through the boards and meet-ups that occurred. People  found their best friends and soulmates because of the Internet and The Dave Matthews Band.

    I devoured anything Dave Matthews or Dave Matthews Band. I had stickers on my car. I had all of the music, including the things you could only get online or from other sources. Rare tune or show, got it. One of the great things about DMB was their openness to sharing live recordings of their music. It’s how they spread. In the community, you were elite if you were pals with or were a taper.

    There were levels of fans; real fans with live shows quoting date and location and then there were the Crash girls- the stereotype frat boys and sorority girls. There is a stereotype associated with DMB fans: pot smoking, drunks. While it’s true that there are some people who fit this mold (yes, I meant to leave out the “u”), a lot of the fans are just your everyday (hahaha) folks going to school and work.

    But I tell you, I knew people of all ages, backgrounds, and income level and they were all in it for the same reason I was: they connected with the music. Some people outgrew the music and the band. That’s okay. What they didn’t out grow was the other fans.

    Somewhere along the road of the past 3 years I’ve lost a few things; my workout routine and DMB included. I still get that jolt when I hear DMB on the radio, my iPod, or in a store but they don’t dominate my music listening habits.

    I’ve never felt the need to meet the band, in fact, it kind of scared me. If I ever did I’d likely say thanks for making music because it brought me a connection to people I wouldn’t have known. It made me part of a community. It gave my emotions melody.


  4. I’m So Rear Window

    October 3, 2009 by Blondette

    The cooler weather has brought with it  the static value of my open bedroom window. The bedroom window is the only window that can be opened more than 1.5 inches due to torn screens and curious cats. (if they get through the screen in the bedroom they’ll just end up on the balcony. When they get out through the living room, they’re on a 2 inch cement “ledge” 2 stories up- yes, this has happened and yes, I freaked out both times.)

    Now, let me provide you with some geography and logistical data: my building faces another building; balcony to balcony with a slight elevation difference making my second story bedroom line up with the first floor units in the facing building. My bed is in front of my window to take the best advantage of the breeze. If I lie in bed, I can stare directly at the building across the way.

    The occupants of the 1st floor unit, and their compatriots, (I actually have no idea who lives there to be honest- it’s a one bedroom apartment and there’s always multiple people there! in fact, it’s a junior one bedroom which means it has a really small living room with no dining area) like to sit/stand outside to smoke, chat, and drink at night. They usually don’t start until after 10pm and don’t stop until some time after I’ve drifted off to sleep (I’m always asleep before 1am, usually more like 11pm.) Hmm, maybe they’re vampires. No wait, they’re just early twenty-somethings.

    So there I am, in bed with a trashy book, and I keep getting distracted by the proximity of live people saying dumb things. Obviously, I had to grab my Blackberry and get the UberTwitter up and running (okay, so, maybe, just maybe I already had my phone and was already on Twitter)

    I judge them. I do. They are all early twenties where they are still forming who they are going to be and still screwing and screwing up at random because it’s not “real” yet and I’m in a different phase of my twenties, the-countdown-to-thirty twenties. I moved into this phase when I turned 28. I saw my 30th birthday on a calendar and realized it was sooner rather than later, and of course, my brother actually turned 30 which means I’m not far behind. I’m in the “holy shit when did I become an adult!?” part of my twenties. Today I actually cleaned for no reason other than it was time to clean. I wasn’t expecting guests or the landlord or dealing with a major bought of ickiness. Keep in mind I don’t think we ever stop screwing and screwing up, but our lessons change as we get older. I mean, my life is no longer structured around penny pitchers, dance beats, well drinks and hello boys!

    But what do I know about these neighbors? They play darts, they smoke (but not in the apartment), they used to drink a lot when they were 18 (every day according to one fellow!), they work in the service industry (one of the girls worked as a server at Cracker Barrel and the other was talking about serving but I never caught the name of the establishment), and that’s about it.

    Was I any different or any better? What did I say when I was drinking and playing darts and unwinding? Yeah, dumb things. But not as dumb as the 1st floorers.

    I kept waiting for them to notice me across the way. I made no effort to hide myself, my light was on, curtain fully open, but maybe the railing hid me. I continue to be interested in my neighbors on all sides.

    What I really ask is, when did I get so much older than my neighbors? It sure would be nice to be friends with my neighbors, but I have nothing but big sister to give the folks who live in my immediate vicinity.

    Hey, at least there’s no missing body being carried out by the vampire screwups.

    In a few weeks I’ll have a brand new set of neighbors to stalk and judge! Maybe I’ll find some new friends.


  5. Things to Do While Waiting for Coffee

    October 3, 2009 by Blondette

    I am saddened by people who do not drink coffee. Not because it’s really sad, but because of the happy I associate with coffee. I have a weekend ritual to have coffee with my bff (yes, I just said BFF- HI TAMMI!) and it often motivates me to get out of bed and tends to lead to interesting turns of events (evidenced here here and here.) (did I get the pluralization correct? eh.)

    Other benefits of coffee aside from the caffeine content:

    • coffee is warm
    • coffee is family in the morning- people come together to ensure coffee is brewed and sit around drinking, chatting, and figuring out what to do. I like these times. I might like it more because it’s not an everyday day thing for me. But, I like mornings and sitting around with someone you like/love, waking up, chatting, and having the entire day ahead provides a contentment of which a cat would approve.
    • coffee provides topic of conversation and camaraderie with coworkers

    So, while you wait for the coffee that bring such wonderful feelings consider filling your time with the following:

    • put your dishes away
    • clean your kitchen
    • moan
    • be bitchy
    • bathe
    • start laundry
    • check the internet for new things
    • tweak your blog
    • feed cats (or you know, other pets)
    • pick out clothes for the day
    • sit on couch and watch morning news
    • stare at coffee maker
    • admire your mug collection- you may or may not know that one of my “things” is loving mugs and glasses. I like drinkware and I’m particular.
    • admire your glass collection
    • Rubix cube
    • solve the mystery of life
    • figure out the whole evolution vs creation thing
    • go back to sleep

    The great thing about some of the items on the list is that you feel even better about getting them done because you did them before you had your coffee.